Monday, 25 November 2013

The Blood Debacle

The recent times in Mumbai have been too good in terms of blood supply, it’s next to impossible to get deficiency of any blood group (except the Bombay blood group) in any number of units across Mumbai, at any particular time of day or night. What I went through today was a bit shocking, it was never a question of replacement or replacing the existing blood bottle with a donor but why would it be needed when blood is available in huge stake everywhere in the city? Something I found today in Tata Memorial Hospital today was shattering my beliefs on the system existing in this world – are we full of demons masked with angelic masks???
                24th November, 2013 and I get a call from a girl saying I need B+ve blood and I got your number from some person in Tata Memorial saying this guy can give you the blood you need. I obliged immediately (never knew who the girl was and from where she was). I replied back immediately saying the blood is been arranged for (fresh one) and things are taken care of, just that she had to inform the blood bank for the same. It was all fine till night. Next day, I been ill was admitted so my phone was not with me. Hence this girl could not contact me in the midst. What the blood bank authority said in the morning was, “We don’t accept blood from other banks.” It was still fine, she managed to get people from the hospital who had patients discharged earlier from the hospital and who had arranged for same blood which was been unused for their patient but the hospital denied to transfer the blood since they said this can’t be done as it may be useful to the registered person in future. Not only this, these are the exact words from the blood bank person to the patient’s daughter (16 years of age only, Lucknow citizen and does not know anyone in Mumbai), “If you don’t arrange for the blood then shayad tumhare operation mein problem aa jaaye. If you don’t arrange for a donor, then shayad operation nab hi ho.”
                Just to clarify on this, blood from any bank is accepted across Mumbai, it is just that there are a few hospitals to name like Tata who create such nuisances for people who are in dire need, the reason been take out blood if you can get it. It been clearly pushed ahead by social workers who work for the same cause that if a blood bank refuses to accept blood in case of need then you can charge the bank for the same. But again the patient’s family has to take this initiative which in most cases isn’t happening since life is more important than setting the system correct for every person. The worst in this case was when I enquired and asked the Tata Blood Bank they said that they had enough quantity of B+ve blood available in stock and I could take it from them when needed (I had asked for 10 bottles).

                It is ok to ask for blood donors or replacement if it is available, people readily give it to, but to trouble someone in need even if blood is available isn’t the way out. Need to step up against this, not the first time I have come across such cases in Mumbai, few have been registered and action was ensured as well, but blood banks now are a question – ARE THEY SAVIOURS OR PROBLEM CREATORS.

Regards,
Abhijeet (Gladi).

Tuesday, 19 November 2013

Been There, Done That Before

                It was same time last year and the year before that when life taught me the hard way out, maybe ridding through broken glasses of relations or tough times regarding where your future lies. The path is same, the pattern of teaching is same (oh yeh I so very love this cruel teacher at times), even the pain taken to ride through the path is same, but the teaching is simply – “Priceless”. I couldn’t find a better place to write this article as I always do, 2 years back it was the 40th floor of my hotel in Malaysia, last year it was the Lonavala Lake at night 3 o’clk and this year on the hospital table on the receiving end for a change this time, places I always think of but always would preferred or would have preferred having friends around but unfortunately it’s a sole man race every time.
                Well about the phase, I really don’t know why I am always so eager at this time of the year to write but trust me it never feels better to write when your life is full of debacles and you have nothing to lose, the world then looks likes place full of busy people who do strive day and night and try to buy some peace but in the end try to find out solutions to their already existing problems. In short everyone has their own one so do I and trust me mine are the best problems that one can get, they never let me feel lonely. True about the loneliness part coz in midst of my 3 rounds to hospital and 2 bottles of glucose along with a day full of tests done to ensure if I am going to survive tomorrow or not (don’t worry that my style of writing in a joking mood, normal tests I mean), I was alone in the place. But as it is said, the bad times teach you a lot, here was a reply which maybe no doctor would have ever told me in last 8 years of my work which more or less happened in hospitals, “They say it’s easy to be God coz he has powers and he is supreme, it’s easier to be a human coz they expect something, they either get it or they don’t get it and they either feel bad or good about the same. But it’s tuff to be an angel and I am looking at one in front of me. You have helped close to 17 cases in this place, you never knew the patient, but I saw you here till the patient was fine. Now comes the day when you need a human to take care of you and you don’t find one or don’t have one and strangely you don’t expect anyone. Strange to know that a guy who then helps 100s has no one besides him when he needed help and moreover he doesn’t expect anyone to be here. Its tuff to be an angel, nice to see one when I am still a human.” Trust me this worked more than the glucose bottle that was still riding on my hand but such instances tend to make me more stronger and harder within and most preciously it keeps saying that you still can do it.
                Relationship wise nothing improved from last year, in fact the number of friends or good friends dropped down exponentially when I came back to my hometown. I had tons to count on 2 years back and now there hardly seem to be a handful besides. Well that’s life as it says, its gets tougher and it gets rockier as it moves ahead. I still don’t know what kept me single all these 2 years but things move ahead for the good and I feel the worst is yet to come. Simply because life keeps testing you and the moment you pass the test, the test gets tougher. This thing doesn’t bob me down but I sometimes feel how much more intense can it get. The only lesson that I was taught in this downward journey on losing on the count of friends is that living alone is possible and that too without expectations from others. I know roads ahead are ruff but that’s the way life goes and I am ready for it.
                Well with the health aspect, again nothing has bettered, but trust me these 2 friends and so called enemies of mine seem to be the most joyous and company boosting lads I have ever met. One stood for 4 years (and still counting, I really thought he left me) and other one a 2 year old buddy, good than the best. ‘Dehydration’ and ‘Bronchitis’ as the world knows them and me respectively in the line above. Going through this really tuff phase of life when demands are quite high but I ain’t amongst the ones who gives up with health reasons in life. It feels pretty proud rather to know that you stand up and deliver to the many who need you, most importantly without expecting anything in return. Who cares for tomorrow, just live life for today, help others if you can coz that’s what differs you from animals, you don’t know if you may survive the night or not so don’t waste yourself.
                Debacles are many, failures are in tons to count on, much more than what I face in these last 2 years. Just got a message from my friend who asked me a simple question, “Why don’t we win in competitions even when we know we are the best???” Ethical and logical question it was I suppose but I tried to give away some philosophy I read in some books some time back saying, “Rome was not built in a day so would be our success.” Yeh seems good to type and I definitely know it is never good to listen but I know the reality behind the game in here. I guess he went with the wrong partner who learns through his debacles and failures and not success. Or maybe the he went wrong in selecting the right guy in terms of luck I suppose. And trust me the efforts we gave were more than commendable and worth an Oscar or a Noble (yeh I am good at hyping things, try asking my ex if you need examples), but trust me we always ended 2 or 3 centimetres short. It been 27 competitions, I lost in all, the closest I could move was a 3rd spot, it is the same which happened last year. The thing what I am proud of all those 27 failures is that firstly I am not scared of any more failures and secondly and most importantly, each and every single failures teaches me a lot and helps me grow and get better. It is difficult to explain this to a neutral but only thing in this article what I feel bad for is I bring upon failures to the rest along with my own. Hope so I change this and divert them towards a better partner or teammate than what I can possibly be.
                I may be clueless of what’s coming, no one in and near commitment (yeh yeh it’s the same thing every year, I am still single), with friends leaving every week – maybe by choice maybe by force of career, health deteriorating faster than a retard’s mental health condition, failures on rise like the BSE rising every Minute every Second, life seems difficult from the way I look at it. But trust me it is the same and it was the same and I love it for it teaches me something new every day with every incident. It may seem hopeless but every day it pumps in tons of adrenaline when I get up to resist these heavenly horrors of life. Most importantly I have god and my parents with me who seem like an unbreakable shell of protection when it comes to difficulties in life, they may not show a path but they help me come up with a path of my own. Even if I do think of giving up, I really don’t know how to give up, pretty difficult thing, so I end up trying and failing again. Well it’s not that I don’t try to win but after giving in my effort I don’t expect anything till the results are out. I guess that’s life, I don’t know how would I go through this tuff phase in life when I maybe needed a mentor or friends to take me out, but I guess destiny has decided its path as ever and I have to make it out all again alone. Been there, done that before, succeeded and would succeed again. That’s what I love my life for coz it’s difficult and no one but me has the privilege to live it.

Regards,
Abhijeet (Gladi).

[P.S. – Readers from last 2 years post may relate in a better way to this, for others happy reading.]

Wednesday, 30 October 2013

Ten simple steps to master stock market- A perspective!

Share market – a nightmare to understand? Indexes, stocks, boards, charts, patterns, commodities, bonds, mutual funds and what not seem like an age old jargon or Bret Lee’s quick bouncer which is invisible? Well they may look difficult than the setting up of a 5 year plan for India, but the core or the start to understand these routine names in the academics of a post-graduate student and especially an MBA post-graduation should get much simpler if one follows some basic factors in understanding the uncertainty of the stock market.
            Rule number one says – “It is a simple give and take.” When the old carter system was in existence, people use to exchange commodities for commodities and later on these commodities were replaced by precious coins of metal like gold or silver. In a share market, you either buy an existing share or you sell an existing share which you have already bought. I won’t be going so early into the depth of short-selling concept since I am writing this like a layman who understands simple give and take. If you have the money, you buy a share you like, yes the one you like, when and what to buy would be slowly covered ahead. If you want the money back from the share you had purchased, you sell the share and get the money back for the quantity you have sold. By knowing this term, you have become a trader.
            Rule number two says – “Know what you are buying or selling.” This is even simpler to understand. When your mom asks you to buy 1 kg of tomato, you go to the vegetable vendor, ask him for a bucket, select the tomatoes according to their colour and look and then ask the vendor to measure the asked 1 kg quantity by your mom. If we know that we have the brains to look into what we are buying, share market is the same logic. When you try to buy any share, you must look for the company’s background, the most simplest way is to Google it or go to stock market sites where you get the graph and news about the companies past and present performance. Again, one need not study the in depth of the company to buy its shares, but since childhood days and especially in MBA entrances, we can make out just by looking at a graph if it is doing good or not, reading the headlines of recent news about the company can give you a slight understanding of the company’s fundamentals and ventures.
            Now since you know what you are buying, you need to know how you should buy it and from where. So here goes rule number three – “Know from whom are you buying it and from where.” This would be a bit deep but I would try to explain it in simpler terms. Let me deal with normal shares (equities) only in this case, there are 2 places from where you can buy these shares, the BSE (Bombay Stock Exchange) and the NSE (National Stock Exchange). But an individual can’t buy a share directly from these 2 places since it would create a huge mess because of the presence of multiple traders at one single time. So there is an intermediate entity called as a Share Broker from whom you buy or sell these shares and he is the one who gets your deal done with the BSE or NSE. The broker charges you a percentage or a fixed amount depending on your transaction, both when you buy and sell a share. Know what your broker offers you and select the best accordingly. Try to go with the best deal which is been offered and see to it that you don’t lose out a lot on commission (brokerage) of the broker. There are online means of selling and buying shares as well as through the banks directly these days where you have your demat account in existence so one needs to look out and study the best possible deal before starting to invest.
            The basic requisites are clear but when you get 1 kg of tomatoes from the vegetable vendor, you mom takes them and stores them at a place. So the fourth rule goes – “Know your demat account.” This account is similar to a bank account, the only exception been you store shares in this account instead of cash. Whenever you buy a share for investment, your demat account serves as a storage place for the quantity you buy, and whenever you sell any share, it is as good as taking out the required quantity from your demat account and selling it via your broker. With this we complete the basic requisites of the share market, what is buying and selling, what to buy, from whom to buy and where to buy and where to store what you have bought.
            Now with all the ammunition, one has entered the battlefield of share market, but one needs to understand some common safety points while entering the warzone. So the fifth rule is more of pre-understanding jargons of share market – “Know your stop-loss and target.” I know these are some jargons but these are like bread and butter if you are thorough with what I have written prior to this paragraph. Stop-Loss: This is a level or a line of danger that an investor predicts or marks while investing or disinvesting in a share so as to minimize his loss if that level is reached. Let me quote this in an easier way with an example of a share. Suppose you invest 1000 bucks in company X and expect a return of 1100 bucks in 1 month (i.e. 100 bucks profit). But you don’t want to bare a loss of more than 100 rupees (i.e. your total investment should not go below 900). So the investor in this case would keep a stop loss of 900 while investing in the share of X at 1000. This is a very important factor when it comes to an investor who is new to the world of share market since you should try to minimize the loss at all possible times. Hence stop loss is the first and the most important jargon a new investor needs to learn in a stock market so as to curtail his losses and move out of any investment if he is baring losses which is beyond his limit of control. Same is when he is trying to sell a 1000 bucks share thinking that it will go down, he can keep a stop loss of 1100 and if this level is breached then he may hold on to the share to gain more profits. Target: As the word goes, an investor should also keep in mind that when he is investing, looking at the charts and fundamentals of the company, he needs to keep a target in mind. Most importantly while setting a target, if one happens to be a new investor in share market, keep realistic and small targets and exit when your investment reaches that target. A simple reason to this would be, you are here to learn the trades of the market and not to make huge profit first up, its best to move out of a share when you feel your pre-set target is already reached. If a new investor keeps track of these 2 words when he invests, he probably is set to resist the twisting tides of the unpredictable market.
            The next rule is a bit of common sense when it comes to investing; here goes the sixth rule of market investment – “Never invest more than 25% of your money in one share.” I again quote that this rule applies strictly to people who are new and want to learn the trading business to its core. The actual amount that one should sensibly invest in one share is 10% of the total cash in hand. If the cash is really low then one can think of 25% at max. The simple reason may be it is not possible to predict the flow of the market and understanding its movement with respect to one share, just because at times, there are some shares which do not follow the market trend and move in the opposite direction to what could have been predicted. Investing in more than 4-5 shares atleast gives you the trend of a particular stock you want to track. Not only that but it may give you a blink idea of the sector that stock belongs too if you have another share or maybe 2 different company shares belonging to the same sector. It is best to keep investing in company which you feel you have learned and researched a lot about and then go on to know the sector which the company belongs to by investing in other companies in the same sector. This creates a sense of confidence for a person in a particular sector and hence he can know the sector and keep investing by increasing his targets and stop loss ranges to earn more profits and know the sector even better.
            With almost everything said and done then latter parts are more upto psychology and sense making when it comes to investments in share market. The seventh rule says – “Keep yourself on ground even after bearing loss or gaining profit.” Needless to say on this point but a true investor is the one who remains calm at mind even when he earns huge profit or makes a tremendous loss. This is because, share market is unpredictable; it is like a casino where you may earn one minute and the very next minute you may go in severe loss. A true investor learns from his losses, and avoids future debacles learning from his past investments. At the same time, he betters his investments if they are earning him profits and mimics them to keep on expanding in his profit margins and bettering them with every buy and sell.
            Seven rules down and still it’s much easier ahead, the next rule is more of a practice, which is useful for an investor to do net practice before the match starts. Rule eight says – “Try your shot at virtual markets before you invest in real.” The rule is as simple as I have quoted it, but along with practicing the share market and its nature, there is an added benefit of playing in virtual market. Not only is it free but if you are confused on the performance of a share, you can fearlessly invest in virtual market and look out for the trend of that share before investing in real. This may reduce your profit (or loss) margins by a huge amount but it is always better to be safe than sorry when you are investing for real. For a new investor, virtual markets are a place where he should start his journey just to build up that confidence he needs before he goes in for the real war.
            The ninth rule is a simple rule which many elders in your life would have guided you and asked you to do ever since the time you learned to read in your young days and the same applies here as well – “Read and listen as much as you can.” Probably the easiest way to grasp the knowledge of share markets and their trend is to read newspapers which give you the insights about latest happening in a market, the deals and ventures been done, the debacles happening all over and the recommendations too. Even news channels which are related specifically to stock markets help in understanding the flow of market and knowing the investment patterns of big shots in the bull zone. This may be a bit dicey but it is always preferable to hear to expert advice and go in for investment rather than blindly putting forth our cash. They may not be perfect but atleast we may get an insight on how to look out for a share or investment, charts and news regarding the shares are always an add on to these opinions.
            Nine rules of principles and still there is one thing which differs from all the 9 rules which I have quoted above, the tenth and the most important rule says – “Believe in yourself for you are the carrier of your luck in the stock market.” It is an instinct driven market and self-confidence (and not over confidence) is the most important criteria while investing. It is partially luck when a new investor starts and one should trust his luck when he invests, for this is the only thing which can make an investor as well as break him. The dice is rolled and the stage is all set, share market is pretty easy to understand and looking at the 10 bold rules above, it is easy for a person to enter the market and start investing. The difficult jargons like short-sell or intraday trading would be learned eventually in the due course of understanding the market. Last but not the least, all the best to all my fellow investors and hope so you make the best of the available opportunity to you – from the heart of a layman in share market.
Regards,
Abhijeet (Gladi).

[P.S. – I have written this article as a layman and I still don’t understand the core concepts in a share market, all I know are the above rules and to make money, I guess the simplest possible way to say that share market is easier than it actually looks like.] 

Sunday, 13 October 2013

Failures : I Love You

The subject line says what I am about to depict or write in this article. But I really like this phase of my life which is going since months to count and feel admired to write about the same in general. Dedication, determination and persistence – is what this one letter word teaches you in due course if you possess something called as patience in life. I don’t know really how to define this phase but it speaks out a lot. They are always there in and around you and haunt you as ghosts or spirits but the only difference of perception that one should possess is – ‘You need them to succeed in life.’
            It is actually pretty weird to depict why I love them, to be frank, I have no reason to do so. But they are more realistic, interesting and loyal than what your girlfriend can possibly think of getting in her lifetime. They are the phase and face of your life, just that the ones who succeed learn from them since each and every single failure not only teaches you a good lesson, but makes you equally strong and resistible to the debacles which got you those failures. Another interesting thing to look at is your stamina through this rough phase. They test you and the test gets tougher as the failures pile on. For the theists, I can simply sum it up as God’s gift to them while he keeps on pushing you ahead in the road towards destiny in life. The reason for why should one love failures if very simple, if you love them as you love your better half, they won’t hurt you, instead as a teacher, they would tell you what you lag at to be where the winners are placed.
            Micheal Jordan did not give up after he was thrown away from his school basketball team, Marilyn Monroe did not commit suicide after she was rejected by the 20th century fox, J.K.Rowling did not give up after been rejected by 12 publishers. The best example to set is Thomas Edison who may have failed more than 10000 times while inventing the electric bulb where he quotes his failures in a complete different way – “I have not failed. I have just found 10000 ways that won’t work.” There are numerous examples that can be quoted, but the best thing that I like about anyone who goes through this phase and never gives up is that they keeping trying. Sometimes I myself feel, being a big student of the failure class, that I fear something called as success if it comes too early in life without trying since it may reduce or nullify my effort towards trying to win. The simplest way to sum it up is keep trying rather than thinking, if you want to think then think of bettering and fine tuning your effort every time you try.
            Sometimes the phase is indefinite; you don’t know when it would end. The sole reason is that you don’t accept what you get but keep cribbing about the same, and as it’s rightly said, life doesn’t give you anything till you demand things from it. If I happen to get into philosophy a bit then would say that this happens since God wants to keep you humble as much as possible. This is another aspect of fighting out through this difficult phase, keeping your ego lower than grass when it comes to accepting things in life. As human psychology goes, there is a tendency of human mind to divert from its main motive when successful and to add to it, the mind gets depressed when things don’t work out. The only solution to this is patience which forms the base of the fight towards success in life.
            It is a step wise process rather. The moment you fail or end up being a centimetre short in a race, don’t feel that you lost but feel proud that you made it that far. The thought should not end here, but you need to analyse – either by learning through a mistake that you committed in your effort or something that can be learned from the winners and can be bettered in yourself to make you reach the winners pedestal. I remember the host asking a question to the legendary Asha Bhosale – “How long did you take to learn singing?” and she humbly replied – “I am still learning.” The main reason for me stressing on something called as humble attitude is that the moment you are handling a failure, it doesn’t hurt since you never expected anything in the first place.
            Another thing is look at is, failures mostly come in heaps, and they make you equally matured in life. In even simpler words if I had to quote it, you need to know the taste of sour to understand what does sweet mean. Likewise, success without failures is tasteless. The taste of the fruit of success when it turns up after multiple failures is priceless and out of this world feeling. But to achieve this success, one needs to keep up the tempo of his efforts intact to ensure that no stone is left unturned from his end. It may be a coincidence that most of my life successes happen to come after multiple failures, these failures or in a better way to quote them as steps towards destiny have become an inseparable part of my life, so much that I fell in love with the sweet steps in my life. It is difficult to depict how it feels been under multiple failures in life till you finally end up with success, but only one thing to be remember as mentioned in the holy Bhagwat Gita that after every bad phase there would be a good phase and most importantly this phenomenon is vice versa. Just to end with quotes from Birbal to his Emperor Akbar when he asked the former to tell him something that would make his smile when he is sad and make him frown when he is happy, out came a witty reply – “Whenever something happens in your life, just remember ‘This will pass by’”. Finally a word of advice to all my fellow readers from a person who went through thousands of failures in his life and is still counting is, “Whenever you fail in life, remember God wants you to learn and it is not the end of life, but the start of it.”
Regards,
Abhijeet (Gladi).

[P.S. – This article just depicts my current phase and nothing else. A way of life which I am in love with.]